Emotional Well-being: Gratitude

“Cultivate the habit of being grateful for every good thing that comes to you, and to give thanks continuously. And because all things have contributed to your advancement, you should include all things in your gratitude.” Ralph Waldo Emerson

November is National Gratitude Month. There is always something on our daily lives to be grateful for.

In the Oxford Dictionary, gratitude is defined as “the quality of being thankful; readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness.”

Gratitude is about putting our attention towards the positive. When you do that, you help improve your physical and mental well-being. It is one simple way to change one’s perspective of the world. It allows you to appreciate the positive, rather than focus on the negative aspects of your life and the world. Learning to be grateful helps you appreciate the little things in life that you may to take for granted.

Many of people express gratitude by saying “thank you” to someone who has helped them or given them a gift. But from a scientific perspective, gratitude is not just an action: it is also the positive emotion. It’s a state of being, where you feel a sense of appreciation that comes from deep within.

We should try to live everyday showing gratitude and appreciation to one another. Yet, as we get busy and focused on our day-to-day activities, responsibilities, and requirements.

Gratitude can be the same way. It’s not that we don’t feel thankful for things, people, or circumstances in our lives, but sometimes our lives get in the way and we lose focus on being grateful.

Research states that people who practice gratitude every day are not only happier but also healthier. On average, people who are grateful tend to have lower stress-related illnesses, lowered blood pressure, are more physically fit, happier, and have more personal and professional relationships with others.

There are many ways to embrace gratitude. And, it is important to acknowledge something each day that you are grateful for. Here are some other ideas:

  • Start a gratitude journal. Write a quick sentence about someone or something that you were grateful about that day. It can help you find appreciate for things around you, even among the stress from that day. And when you review what you’ve written, you’ll be able to reflect with appreciation those relationships or situations.
  • Say “please” and “thank you.” These simple words go beyond basic manners. They show respect, kindness, appreciation, and acknowledge someone else’s efforts. You could be the one thank you someone received that day.
  • Take the time for mindful reflection. Take a few minutes to focus on the present moment. It can reduce stress and cultivate the ability to be present in the moment and teach you to accept yourself and circumstances.
  • Spread gratitude. Share gratitude with other people. Tell them how much you appreciate their services, care, friendship, etc. Show your family how grateful you are to have them in your life, let them know how they make your life better just by being a part of it.
  • Give back to the community. Show your gratitude and appreciation by giving back to the community. Helping out in the community is a good way to appreciate everything in life. So do your part and become something that others can be grateful for.
  • Wake up and express gratitude for three things every morning. When you wake up each morning, try to immediately think of at least three things you’re grateful for. It can help you get in a positive mindset to start your day. You can express gratitude for something you’re looking forward to that day, or just for simply waking up again.

It’s easy to lose focus on gratitude. It’s t’s easy to forget that even the little things we do have a positive and beneficial impact on our family and friends.

Being grateful means finding and focusing more on the good. It means finding something to be grateful for amid the negative and chaos.

Gratitude has been proven to generate a positive impact on psychological, physical, and personal well-being. Practicing gratitude or reflecting on what you’re grateful for is an effective way to deal with life’s chaotic, stressful and tense moments. Grateful people tend to sleep better, have lower stress levels, exercise more often, and eat healthier.

“Give gratitude a try! You’ll be happier you did.”


References:

  1. https://www.southwesthealth.org/2021/11/a-month-of-gratitude/
  2. https://antimaximalist.com/national-gratitude-month/
  3. https://nationaltoday.com/national-gratitude-month/

Difficult Financial Conversations

The financial realities of being a woman — 4 out of 10 people—men and women alike—do not realize that women need to save more for retirement. Life expectancy, the pay gap, health care costs, and career interruptions due to caregiving are all contributing factors, according to Fidelity Investments Women Talk Money.

Video: 5 Investing Conversations to Have Now with guest: Anna Sale, host of the podcast “Death, Sex and Money” and author of “How to Talk About Hard Things”
Hosted by Lorna Kapusta, Head of Women Investors at Fidelity Investments

“Money is like oxygen. It’s all around us. We can pretend it’s not but we need it to breathe. When you don’t have enough you really feel it.” Anna Sale, host of the podcast “Death, Sex and Money” and author of the book “How to Talk About Hard Things”

“Money is at once a tool which is the choices we make around money, what we spend it on, how we save it”‘ says Anna Sale. “And money is also a symbol which brings up all these questions about am I enough, am I worthy enough, am I living up to all these expectations for myself. When we talk about money as a tool, sometimes the symbolic ways that money kind of makes us feel lots of big feelings can distort those conversations about money being a tool.”


References:

  1. https://www.fidelity.com/learning-center/personal-finance/women-talk-money/investing

Quote: Freedom Involves Risk

“To laugh is to risk appearing the fool,

To weep is to risk appearing sentimental,

To reach out for another is to risk involvement,

To expose feelings is to risk exposing your true self,

To place ideas and dreams before the crowd is to risk their loss,

To love is to risk not being loved in return,

To live is to risk dying,

To hope is to risk despair,

To try is to risk failure,

But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, and is nothing. He may avoid suffering and sorrow, but he simply cannot learn, feel, change, grow, love and live. Chained by certitudes, he is a slave, he has forfeited freedom.

Only a person who risks is free.”

Author Unknown

“Freedom is never free. It requires risk taking.” Nassim Nicholas Taleb.

Things to Consider When Saving, Investing and Building Wealth

Saving for the future, investing to grow your money and building wealth has little to do with the economic cycle, the stock market valuation or even how much money you earn.

It’s your mindset that can hinder your financial outcome and keep you trapped at an unsatisfying level of financial success. And, unless you can embrace a positive financial mindset, your ability to save, invest and build wealth will be hindered for the rest of your financial life.

The process of investing and wealth-building can be improved by a adhering to the following tips to set yourself up for potential financial success and freedom:

1. Start Early

It’s important to invest a percentage of your salary each month. And, starting early could be a way to dramatically increase your savings over time. The good thing about starting early is you can get the benefits of compound interest!

2. Set Investment Goals

Are you saving up to buy a house? Or putting money away for retirement? Investing with a purpose will help you determine the right strategy and keep you on track to pursue your financial goals. Determine your financial freedom number.

3. Know Your Time Horizon

If you think you’ll need the money within the next five years, you might consider less volatile investments, like fixed income securities. Investing for the long-term (think: 15 or more years)?  You might think about adopting a less conservative strategy.

4. Assess Your Risk Level

Knowing how much risk you’re willing to take on will help you narrow down your investment choices and keep you from letting your emotions guide your investing during periods of high market volatility.

5. Analyze Your Budget

Take your monthly income and take a list of your monthly expenses and create a budget (for instance, the popular 50/30/20 budget). By looking at your spending, you may discover extra money to invest each month.

6. Know Your Investment Choices

Familiarize yourself with different investment types to see what makes sense for you. Are you interested in international stocks and ETFs (exchange-traded funds)? Maybe bonds and mutual funds?

7. Go It Alone or Use an Advisor

If you’re the independent type, you may be drawn to Self-Directed Trading. Or if you prefer an advisor or to automate your investments with a Robo Portfolio.

8. Consider Avoiding Individual Stocks and Bonds; Invest in Market Index Funds

If you’re still learning the ropes, you might be more comfortable sticking to broader based investments like index funds and ETFs. These types of investments require less of your time and are less risky since they invest in numerous companies. As an alternative, an market index fund is an investment that tracks a market index, typically made up of stocks, like the S&P 500, or bonds. Index funds typically invest in all the components that are included in the index they track,

9. Diversify Your Portfolio

If all your investments are your company’s stock, and they go out of business, you’ll wish you had a diversified portfolio. You may reduce your risk by holding a variety of securities that react differently to market changes.

10. Think Long-term

History shows whenever the market takes a dip due to volatility, it eventually bounces back. Be patient and disciplined: Give your money time, make consistent contributions and wait out inevitable market downturns.

11. Don’t Forget High Interest Debt

School loans or credit card debt can make allocating money to investments a tough choice. It’s possible to reduce your debt and invest, and we can help you accomplish both.

12. Get Your Match

Many employers offer a 401(k) match, which can be a great incentive to invest for retirement, helping you to potentially build tax deferred savings.

13. Save and Invest for Retirement

When you’re young, retirement seems like eons away — but for many, regardless of age, now is the best time to start saving for your golden years. You may consider looking into Traditional and Roth IRAs to get started. The typical retirement strategy is built on the pillars of your pension, 401(k) plan, your Traditional IRA, and taxable savings.

14. Automate Your Contributions and Pay Yourself First

Pay yourself first instead of saving what remains after monthly expenses. Set up recurring investments to take advantage of dollar cost averaging. With this strategy, instead of trying to time the market, you invest the same amount each month — sometimes you might buy high, but other times, you’ll purchase low.

15. Beware of Fads

Just because everyone is jumping on the latest meme stock or investing app doesn’t mean you should. Fad stocks are often unpredictable, so if this doesn’t align with your investment strategy, feel confident to sit them out.

16. Be Informed

A prospectus sheet details the performance of a company to help you understand its stock performance. And digital tools can help you track your investments, too. If you cannot dedicate time to read and research, invest in a market index fund which is one of the easiest and most effective ways for investors to build wealth.

17. Don’t Neglect Your Emergency (or Peace of Mind) Fund

Investing grows your money and helps build long-term financial freedom, but you need to be prepared for short-term unexpected expenses. So when setting out on your own, don’t forget to start setting aside funds in an emergency (or peace of mind) fund. This money should be liquid (not invested in securities), so you can access it for unexpected expenses.

18. Watch Out for Fees

Some brokers will charge a commission fee whenever you buy or sell stocks, which add up and make a dent in your overall returns. Trade U.S. stocks and ETFs commission-free with our Self-Directed Trading.

19. Ask for Help

Investing can get complicated. Don’t be afraid to reach out to a financial advisor for advice and support.

20. Adjust as You Go

As life circumstances change, it might make sense to move your money into different types of investment accounts or change up how much you contribute. Any time your financial circumstances change, remember to reassess your financial goals, plan and investments.

21. Create and Follow a Financial Plan

Every living adult needs to financially plan. A financial plan is a comprehensive overview of your financial goals, net worth, cash flow, debt, taxes, risk tolerance, time horizon and it provides the steps you need to take to achieve and manage them.

22. Investing has risks.

No one knows exactly what will happen in the future and investments could lose money, so be aware of how much you are able to invest and be comfortable leaving it there for a period of time since it may have ups and downs.

23. A Wealthy (or Positive Financial) Mindset

It’s imperative that you refocus your mindset and change how you think about yourself, your finances, and the world around you. If you keep thinking about things the same way, you’re going to get the same results. Change in the world around you doesn’t happen until you change yourself. Embrace and grow your positive financial mindset about money, wealth and financial freedom.

Getting Started

Getting started is often the hardest step for most new investor to take, but starting to invest today is advice worth implementing! “The best time to plant a tree is twenty years ago; the second best time is today.” And, what’s true for a tree is also true for growing your money.


References:

  1. https://www.ally.com/do-it-right/investing/things-to-know-when-investing-in-your-20s/
  2. https://www.harveker.com/blog/11-principles-infographic-financial-freedom/

Knowing Your Why: Financial Freedom

WHY is the purpose, the cause, or the belief that drives every organization and every person’s individual career.

“Knowing Your Why” is the single most important thing you can do to energize your journey towards being a better you and to achieve a better financial future for you and your family. Why is all about your purpose. Why do you get out of bed in the morning? And why should anyone care?

Simon Sinek, author of the book Find Your Why: A Practical Guide for Finding Purpose for You and Your Team, writes that it is only when you understand your “why” (or your purpose) that you’ll be more capable of pursuing the things that give you fulfillment. It will serve as your point of reference for all your actions and decisions from this moment on, allowing you to measure your progress and know when you have met your life and financial goals.

When you’ve identified your life’s purpose, it’s easier to focus on what truly matters. To stay focused on your goals, they must be important to you. Your subconscious can try to trick you into believing that you want one thing, when in reality these things do very little to help you live out your purpose.

Understanding why you’re doing what you’re doing is the single most important question you can ask with respect to your life and financial well-being. Failure to ask and answer that question can be the single greatest oversight you can make when it comes to saving and investing. Those who do have a strong sense of why they are investing are more successful financially.

Understanding why you’re doing what you’re doing in the first place is critical. Your why serves as your compass to stay on course or your North Star in the often hectic day-to-day grind that can derail you from reaching your goals. It’s so easy to get caught up in the minutiae of chasing fads, hot stocks or following the investing herd that you forget what you’re trying to really accomplish in the first place.

Saving and investing with a purpose

Saving and investing without a purpose will leave you filling empty. Saving and investing should be a means to an end…financial freedom . If money is the end, it will likely create more problems than it solves. Thus, knowing your why for saving and investing is an essential first step.

But, what is financial freedom? Financial freedom is about much more than just having money, writes Robert Kiyosaki. It’s the freedom to be who you really are and do what you really want in life. It’s about following your passion, making choices that aren’t influenced by your bank account, and living life on your terms.

Beyond serving to tell you what financial goals you should be pursuing in the first place, knowing why you’re saving for the future, and investing to grow your money and to build wealth serves two important purposes:

  • It motivates you, and
  • It orients you.

To find your personal “Why” in life, you really have to dig deep down into your conscious mind. You must ask yourself several pertinent questions such as:

  • Why do I work every day?
  • What do I value most?
  • What do I want to do with my life?
  • What is my purpose and goals in life?
  • Why do I want to have a positive influence in my community and on the world?

“He who has a why can endure any how.”  Frederick Nietzsche

Sinek and his team provide a simple format to use to draft your WHY Statement:

“TO ____ SO THAT ____.”

The first blank represents your contribution — the contribution you make to the lives others through your WHY. And the second blank represents the impact of your contribution.

“You can only become truly accomplished at something you love. Don’t make money your goal. Instead pursue the things you love doing, and then do them so well that people can’t take their eyes off of you.” Maya Angelou

The key to harnessing your passion and to live a life of contentment is understanding your “why.” Why are you passionate about saving for the future and investing to grow your money and building wealth? Is it because you desire financial freedom and have a new lease on life?

What if we awoke every single day knowing your why? For no better reason than to be better than yourself and to achieve financial freedom in order to leave our family and our community in a better condition than we found it?


References:

  1. https://engineeringmanagementinstitute.org/knowing-your-why/
  2. https://www.deanbokhari.com/find-your-why/
  3. https://www.developgoodhabits.com/your-why/
  4. https://www.richdad.com/what-is-financial-freedom
  5. https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/243737
  6. https://www.jordanharbinger.com/simon-sinek-whats-your-why-and-where-do-you-find-it/

General Colin Powell’s 13 Rules

General Colin Luther Powell (April 5, 1937 – October 18, 2021), the first African American Secretary of State, died at the age of 84. General Powell was a retired four-star Army general who served as National Security Advisor, Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, before becoming Secretary of State.

General Powell’s 13 Rules are listed below.  They are full of emotional intelligence and wisdom for any leader.

  1. It Ain’t as Bad as You Think!  It Will Look Better in the Morning.  Leaving the office at night with a winning attitude affects more than you alone; it conveys that attitude to your followers.
  2. Get Mad Then Get Over It.  Instead of letting anger destroy you, use it to make constructive change.
  3. Avoid Having Your Ego so Close to your Position that When Your Position Falls, Your Ego Goes With It.  Keep your ego in check, and know that you can lead from wherever you are.
  4. It Can be Done. Leaders make things happen.  If one approach doesn’t work, find another.
  5. Be Careful What You Choose. You May Get It.  Your team will have to live with your choices, so don’t rush.
  6. Don’t Let Adverse Facts Stand in the Way of a Good Decision. Superb leadership is often a matter of superb instinct. When faced with a tough decision, use the time available to gather information that will inform your instinct.
  7. You Can’t Make Someone Else’s Choices.  You Shouldn’t Let Someone Else Make Yours. While good leaders listen and consider all perspectives, they ultimately make their own decisions.  Accept your good decisions.  Learn from your mistakes.
  8. Check Small Things. Followers live in the world of small things.  Find ways to get visibility into that world.
  9. Share Credit.  People need recognition and a sense of worth as much as they need food and water.
  10. Remain calm.  Be kind.  Few people make sound or sustainable decisions in an atmosphere of chaos.  Establish a calm zone while maintaining a sense of urgency.
  11. Have a Vision. Be Demanding.  Followers need to know where their leaders are taking them and for what purpose.  To achieve the purpose, set demanding standards and make sure they are met.
  12. Don’t take counsel of your fears or naysayers.  Successful organizations are not built by cowards or cynics.
  13. Perpetual optimism is a force multiplier.  If you believe and have prepared your followers, your followers will believe.

General Colin Powell’s rules are short but powerful.  Use them as a reminder to manage your emotions, model the behavior you want from others, and lead your team through adversity.


References:

  1. https://executiveexcellence.com/13-rules-leadership-colin-powell/

Best Investment Advice – Mark Cuban

“You can’t buy health and you can’t buy love.” Warren Buffett

“The best investment you can make is paying off your credit cards, paying off whatever debt you have.” Mark Cuban

Cuban lived for years on the budget of what he referred to as “a broke college student”, driving lousy cars, eating lousy food and saving, saving, saving. He believed that overspending can be an unnecessary cause of stress, and he advocates for living like a student if that’s all you can truly afford. “Your biggest enemies are your bills,” Cuban wrote. “The more you owe, the more you stress. The more you stress over bills, the more difficult it is to focus on your goals. The cheaper you can live, the greater your options.”

A forward-thinking investor and notorious taker of calculated risks, he built his wealth slowly over time and he derived as much pleasure out of saving as he did spending.

Here is top investing advice from Mark Cuban to builde wealth and achieve financial freedom:

  • Pay Off Debt, Then Invest – Paying off debt before you invest delivers the best returns for your money (capital). “The best investment you can make is paying off your credit cards, paying off whatever debt you have. If you have a student loan with a 7% interest rate, if you pay off that loan, you’re making 7%, that’s your immediate return, which is a lot safer than picking a stock, or trying to pick real estate, or whatever it may be,” Cuban said.
  • Never Invest To Get Out of Trouble – Just like you should never gamble if you absolutely have to win, the same rules apply to investing as a remedy for financial trouble. “If you are buying because you need the price to go up and solve a financial hole you are in, that is the EXACT WRONG time to trade,” Cuban commented. “And we all have to respect people who choose to sell because they need to. Bills don’t care what the market does. Get right and come back later.”
  • Don’t Invest In the Stock Market – Cuban disagrees with investors who think capitalism’s greatest wealth-generation machine is the stock market. “Put it in the bank. The idiots that tell you to put your money in the market because eventually it will go up need to tell you that because they are trying to sell you something. The stock market is probably the worst investment vehicle out there. If you won’t put your money in the bank, NEVER put your money in something where you don’t have an information advantage. Why invest your money in something because a broker told you to? If the broker had a clue, he/she wouldn’t be a broker, they would be on a beach somewhere.”
  • But If You Invest in the Stock Market, Buy an Index Fund – Avoid picking your own stocks or buying into expensive mutual funds — buy an index fund. “For those investors not too knowledgeable about markets, the best bet is a cheap S&P 500 fund,” according to Cuban.
  • Buy a Stock You Believe In and Hold on for Dear Life – Ignore short term volatility and market gyrations. “When I buy a stock, I make sure I know why I[‘m] buying it. Then I HODL until … I learn that something has changed,” using text-slang acronym for “hold on for dear life.”
  • Take Risks — But Play It Safe 90% of the Time – Without risk, there can be no reward, and the bigger the risk, the bigger the potential payout. Cuban suggests that investors to go for broke and swing for the fences — but only with a sliver of their investments. “If you’re a true adventurer and you really want to throw the hail Mary, you might take 10% and put it in Bitcoin or Ethereum, but if you do that, you’ve got to pretend you’ve already lost your money,” Cuban commented. “It’s like collecting art, it’s like collecting baseball cards, it’s like collecting shoes. It’s a flyer, but I’d limit it to 10%.”
  • If One of Those Risks Is Crypto, Stick With the Big Boys – If you’re considering jumping on the cryptocurrency bandwagon, you’d be wise to place your bets on the biggest names in the game because Cuban sees way too many similarities to 1999 for comfort. “Watching the cryptos trade, it’s exactly like the internet stock bubble. exactly. I think Bitcoin, Ethereum, a few others will be analogous to those that were built during the dot-com era, survived the bubble bursting and thrived, like AMZN, EBay, and Priceline. Many won’t,” commented Cuban
  • If You Don’t Understand an Investment, Walk Away –  Investing fundamentals dictates against investing in things you don’t understand. “If you don’t fully understand the risks of an investment you are contemplating, it’s okay to do nothing,” Cuban wrote. “No. 1 rule of investing: When you don’t know what to do, do nothing.” Always invest in what you know.
  • Knowledge Is the Best Investment – The best way to avoid investing in something you don’t understand is to understand whatever you’re invested in. “At MicroSolutions it, “knowledge advantage”. gave me a huge advantage. A guy with little computer background could compete with far more experienced guys just because I put in the time to learn all I could. I read every book and magazine I could. Heck, three bucks for a magazine, 20 bucks for a book. One good idea that led to a customer or solution paid for itself many times over.”

You must be able to earn, save, and manage your spending, then you can start investing and building wealth.

Cuban was influenced by a book called “Cashing in on the American Dream: How to Retire by the Age of 35.”“The whole premise of the book [Cashing in on the American Dream] was if you could save up to $1 million and live like a student, you could retire” Cuban said. “But you would have to have the discipline of saving and how you spent your money once you got there. I did things like have five roommates and live off of macaroni and cheese and really was very, very frugal. I had the worst possible car.”


  1. https://www.gobankingrates.com/money/wealth/millionaire-money-rules/
  2. https://www.gobankingrates.com/investing/strategy/mark-cubans-top-investing-advice

The Laws of Wealth by Daniel Crosby

“Get rid of the excuses and get invested.” Fidelity Investment

Daniel Crosby, author of The Laws of Wealth, presents 10 rules of behavioral self-management.

Rule #1 – You Control What Matters Most. “The behavior gap measures the loss that the average investor incurs as a result of emotional responses to market conditions.” As an example, the author notes that the best performing mutual fund during the period 2000-2010 was CGM Focus, with an 18.2% annualized return; however the average investor in the fund had a negative return! The reason is that they tended to buy when the fund was soaring and sell in a panic when the price dipped. More on volatility later…

Rule #2 — You Cannot Do This Alone. “Vanguard estimated that the value added by working with a competent financial advisor is roughly 3% per year… The benefits of working with an advisor will be ‘lumpy’ and most concentrated during times of profound fear and greed… The best use of a financial advisor is as a behavioral coach rather than an asset manager.” Make sure your advisor is a fiduciary. “A fiduciary has a legal requirement to place his clients’ interest ahead of his own.”

Rule #3 – Trouble Is Opportunity. “The market feels most scary when it is actually most safe… Corrections and bear markets are a common part of any investment lifetime, they represent long-term buying opportunity and a systematic process is required to take advantage of them.” The author quotes Ben Carlson: “Markets don’t usually perform the best when they go from good to great. They actually show the best performance when things go from terrible to not-quite-so-terrible as before.”

To do this is by keeping some assets in cash a buy list of stocks that are great qualitly, have a strong balance sheet and a strong brand, but are expensive.

Rule #4 – If You’re Excited, It’s a Bad Idea. “Emotions are the enemy of good investment decisions.”

Rule #5 – You Are Not Special. “A belief in personal exceptionality causes us to ignore potential danger, take excessively concentrated stock positions and stray from areas of personal competence… An admission of our own mediocrity is what is required for investment excellence… This tendency to own success and outsource failure [known as fundamental attribution error] leads us to view all investment successes as personal skill, thereby robbing us of opportunities for learning as well as any sense of history. When your stocks go up, you credit your personal genius. When your stocks go down, you fault externalities. Meanwhile, you learn nothing.”

Rule #6 – Your Life Is the Best Benchmark. “As a human race, we are generally more interested in being better than other people than we are in doing well ourselves.” However, “measuring performance against personal needs rather than an index has been shown to keep us invested during periods of market volatility, enhance savings behavior and help us maintain a long-term focus.”

Rule #7 – Forecasting Is For Weathermen. “The research is unequivocal—forecasts don’t work. As a corollary, neither does investing based on these forecasts…. Scrupulously avoid conjecture about the future, rely on systems rather than biased human judgment and be diversified enough to show appropriate humility.”

Rule #8 – Excess Is Never Permanent. “We expect that if a business is well-run and profitable today this excellence will persist.” The author quotes James O’Shaughnessy: “‘The most ironclad rule I have been able to find studying masses of data on the stock market, both in the United States and developed foreign markets, is the idea of reversion to the mean.’ Contrary to the popular idea of bear markets being risky and bull markets being risk-free, the behavioral investor must concede that risk is actually created in periods of market euphoria and actualized in down markets.”

Rule #9 – Diversification Means Always Having to Say You’re Sorry. “You can take it to the bank that some of your assets will underperform every single year… The simple fact is that no one knows which asset classes will do well at any given time and diversification is the only logical response to such uncertainty… Broad diversification and rebalancing have been shown to add half a percentage point of performance per year, a number that can seem small until you realize how it is compounded over an investment lifetime.”

Rule #10 – Risk Is Not a Squiggly Line. “Wall Street is stuck in a faulty, short-sighted paradigm that views risk as a mathematical reduction [of volatility]… a flaw that can be profitably exploited by the long-term, behavioral investor who understands the real definition of risk… Volatility is the norm, not the exception, and it should be planned for and diversified against, but never run from… Let me say emphatically, there is no greater risk than overpaying for a stock, regardless of its larger desirability as a brand.”

One of the most interesting concepts in the book is that investing in an index is not as passive as we might assume. Crosby quotes Rob Arnott: “‘The process is subjective—not entirely rules based and certainly not formulaic. There are many who argue that the S&P 500 isn’t an index at all: It’s an actively managed portfolio selected by a committee—whose very membership is a closely guarded secret!—and has shown a stark growth bias throughout its recent history of additions and deletions… The capitalization-weighted portfolio overweights the overvalued stocks and underweights the undervalued stocks…’ In a very real sense, index investing locks in the exact opposite of what we ought to be doing and causes us to buy high and sell low… Buying a capitalization weighted index like the S&P 500 means that you would have held nearly 50% tech stocks in 2000 and nearly 40% financials in 2008.”

“Once we realize that passive indexes are not mined from the Earth, but rather assembled arbitrarily by committee, the most pertinent question is not if you are actively investing (you are) but how best to actively invest.”

“Behavioral risk is the potential for your actions to increase the probability of permanent loss of capital… Behavioral risk is a failure of self… Our own behavior poses at least as great a threat as business or market risks… We must design a process that is resistant to emotion, ego, bad information, misplaced attention and our natural tendency to be loss averse.”

Crosby presents rule-based behavioral investment, or RBI for short. “The myriad behavior traps to which we can fall prey can largely be mitigated through the simple but elegant process that is RBI. The process is easily remembered by the following four Cs:

  1. Consistency – frees us from the pull of ego, emotion and loss aversion, while focusing our efforts on uniform execution.
  2. Clarity – we prioritize evidence-based factors and are not pulled down the seductive path of worrying about the frightening but unlikely or the exciting but useless.
  3. Courageousness – we automate the process of contrarianism: doing what the brain knows best but the heart and stomach have trouble accomplishing.
  4. Conviction – helps us walk the line between hubris and fear by creating portfolios that are diverse enough to be humble and focused enough to offer a shot at long-term outperformance.”

“Rule-based investing is about making simple, systematic tweaks to your investment portfolio to try and get an extra percentage point or two that has a dramatic positive impact on managing risk and compounding your wealth over time… We know that what works are strategies that are diversified, low fee, low turnover and account for behavioral biases.”

“Just like a casino, you will stick to your discipline in all weather, realizing that if you tilt probability in your favor ever so slightly, you will be greatly rewarded in the end… Becoming a successful behavioral investor looks a great deal like being The House instead of The Drunken Vacationer.”

The author quotes Jason Zweig: “You will do a great disservice to yourselves… if you view behavioral finance mainly as a window onto the world. In truth, it is also a mirror that you must hold up to yourselves.”


Crosby, Daniel. The Laws of Wealth: Psychology and the Secret to Investing Success. Hampshire, Great Britain: Harriman House, 2016.

Closing the Black Wealth Gap

Black families have one-eighth the wealth of white families as a result of economic discrimination and institutionalized racism.

This year marks the 100th anniversary of the Tulsa Race Massacres. Over two days, a white mob in the city’s Black district of Greenwood killed an estimated 300 Black Americans and left nearly 10,000 destitute and homeless. The Greenwood area was known as Black Wall Street, an epicenter of Black business and culture.

The Tulsa Race Massacres is just one many thousands of violent and economic incidents throughout American history that created the wealth gap. As such, the Black wealth gap was created through centuries of institutional racism and economic discrimination that limited opportunities for African-Americans.

Wealth was taken from these communities before it had the opportunity to grow. This history matters for contemporary inequality in part because its legacy is passed down generation-to-generation through unequal monetary inheritances which make up a great deal of current wealth.

The racial wealth gap is a chasm with Black families owning one-eighth the wealth of white families. According to the Survey of Consumer Finances, in 2019, the median net worth of Black households was $24,000 as opposed to $189,000 for white households. This shortfall in financial wealth creates a cascade of inequalities in education, homeownership, and simply saving for emergencies.

Historically, Blacks were limited to certain neighborhoods and had more trouble borrowing to buy a home than white home buyers. Additionally, Black workers don’t advance to the top positions in companies at a proportional rate as other groups.

Moreover, African American families have had fewer opportunities to build generational wealth through home ownership, investments and inheritance. In this century, many Black families were stripped of their wealth and financial security by by both public and private institutionalized racism whether called Jim Crow or redline policies.

There are other factors: Many African-Americans, particularly older ones, are too conservative as investors. Only 34% of Black families own stocks, while more than half of white families do, according to a Federal Reserve. It is important to help African American investors get more comfortable with owning risk assets such as equity stocks, ETF and mutual funds that build wealth over the long term.

Do not seek shortcuts to build wealth

You must build wealth over time. If you’re saving 15% or 20% of your income over 30 years, there’s a good chance you will be wealthy. These methods truly work whether you’re making $50,000 or making $500,000 a year.

‘We just had an 11-year bull market. If you didn’t take the appropriate amount of risk, you’re significantly behind,” says Malik Lee, an Atlanta financial advisor whose clientele is more than 90% African-American.

American Dream for Black families

The heart of the American Dream for Black families is financial wellness, independence and freedom. There are many ways to express the American Dream, including owning their home, not living paycheck to paycheck, and being able to travel. Today, 69% of African American families are confident the American Dream is still attainable, according to MassMutual’s ‘State of the American Family’ survey.

Financial wellness for most families is the heart of the American Dream. American families tend to view financial wellness in terms of five common financial priorities:

  • Having an emergency fund
  • Feeling confident in both short-term and long-term financial decision making
  • Not carrying a lot of debt
  • Being financially prepared for the unexpected
  • Not living paycheck to paycheck

Black families are taking steps to secure their financial future and dreams, but more needs to be done to keep the American Dream alive. The top financial regret across all consumer groups surveyed is “not starting early enough.”


References:

  1. https://www.barrons.com/articles/this-advisor-wants-to-close-the-black-wealth-gap-accepting-risk-is-key-51625077456
  2. https://www.federalreserve.gov/econres/scf/dataviz/scf/chart/#series:Net_Worth;demographic:racecl4;population:1,2,3,4;units:median;range:1989,2019
  3. https://www.brookings.edu/blog/up-front/2020/02/27/examining-the-black-white-wealth-gap/
  4. https://www.massmutual.com/static/path/media/files/mc1133aa_09248mr-final.pdf
  5. https://www.forbes.com/sites/brianthompson1/2021/06/17/the-key-to-closing-the-racial-wealth-gap-black-entrepreneurship/

Positive Financial Mindset

A person cannot achieve financial freedom and save by paying themselves first, invest for the long-term and accumulate wealth until they believe they can be financially free and successful.

Carol S. Dweck, Ph.D., a Stanford University Professor of Psychology, who is considered by many the leading expert on mindset and human behaviors, and who wrote the book, ‘Mindset: The New Psychology of Success‘, says people have two core mindsets: a growth mindset and a fixed mindset.

A growth mindset is the belief that our skills and qualities can be cultivated through effort and perseverance: Our abilities are due to our actions. So many people do not obtain financial freedom because they do not have one thing: the right mindset. Everything starts with how you think about money, wealth and success.

Embracing a Positive Mindset

When you begin to embrace a growth mindset, you start to think differently about how you talk to yourself and think about financial success. This leads individuals to focus on saving by paying yourself first, investing for the long-term and accumulating wealth, rather than focusing on expenses, paying bills and paying off debt. Consider this, if you focus solely on paying bills or paying off debt, you’re limiting your ability to save, invest and accumulating wealth; effectively, you’re not focusing on growth.

One common financial myth held by many Americans is that to achieve financial success through saving, investing and accumulating wealth, a person must sacrifice their happiness, their families and often their health for a large paycheck. People must realized that no matter how successful and happy a person masked themselves to look outwardly, it means nothing if he or she wasn’t happy with themselves on the inside. Portraying an outward image of success no matter how one felt on the inside does not equate to wealth. Instead represents a path to misery and unhappiness.

Most people are never able to achieve financial freedom because, for one, either they don’t know it exists or believe it’s possible for them; normally they’re never taught anything about it.

It begins with Mindset

“If you think the amount of money you have (or rather, don’t have) is due to someone else, you need to change your financial mindset.

The key to saving, investing and accumulating wealth and achieving financial freedom isn’t starting off with a lot of money, it starts with one’s mindset…embracing a positive financial mindset. It all begins with the belief that you can realize and achieve it. Once you believe in your mind that you can, then you need to find a reason to keep this belief as strong as possible; this reason is your “Why?” Without it, at the first sign of adversity or when things begin to get challenging, you will quit.

Deciding to change your attitude regarding personal finance is one of the first steps in shifting your mindset and changing the of your outcome. A growth mindset means that you think with abundance and you believe that resources are not finite and that you can create more. With a growth mindset, you know that resources are infinite and that if you invest wisely, you’ll be able to achieve higher returns.

For example, people who focus on prosperity tend to look at their finances as an opportunity for growth — they focus on the opportunities for growing their income and net worth. But, in order to achieve this growth, you have to be willing to learn new things and step outside your comfort zone. Having a growth mindset with your finances empowers you to want to learn more about investing and ask a lot of questions about money; it helps you think like an investor.

A growth mindset is especially important with personal finances because it lets you accurately assess risk. A growth mindset knows that there’s always more to be made. It’s a prudent approach to savings as well as personal investing.

A person can find evidence of the Law of Attraction in the Bible in several places.  For instance:

“As a man thinks, so is he”-Proverbs 23:7

“A good man, out of the good treasure of his heart, brings forth that which is good; and an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart brings forth that which is evil: for of the abundance of his heart his mouth speaketh.”- Luke 6:45

“What you decide on shall be done, and light will shine on your ways”- Job 22:28

“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. “For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened.…”Matthew 7:7-8

“…whoever shall say unto this mountain, be removed, and be cast into the sea; and shall not doubt in his heart, but shall believe that those things that he says shall come to pass, he shall have whatsoever he says”- Mark 11:23

Mindset is the key to changing your financial habits and building wealth. By changing your money mindset, you will be able to achieve your long term financial goals. Essentially, financial success–saving, investing and accumulatin wealth–is a mindset. A perso can’t truly be wealthy until they believe they can be wealthy.


References:

  1. https://theweek.com/articles/728758/how-growth-mindset-revolutionize-finances
  2. https://investmentu.com/how-to-beef-up-your-financial-mindset-for-2021/