Steve Jobs on Consulting

“Consulting is like a picture of a banana. You might get a very accurate picture, but it’s only two dimensional. Without the experience of actually doing it, you never get three dimensional.” ~ Steve Jobs

Apple founder and CEO Steve Jobs walked into a room full of MIT MBA students and asked how many were going into consulting business.

Many hands went up.

He said their careers would be “like a picture of a banana.”

“You might get a very accurate picture. But you never really taste it.”

He spent the next 60 minutes explaining what actually builds careers:

“Without owning something over an extended period of time, where one has a chance to take responsibility for one’s recommendations, where one has to see one’s recommendations through all action stages and accumulate scar tissue for the mistakes and pick oneself up off the ground and dust oneself off, one learns a fraction of what one can.”

He continued:

“Coming in and making recommendations and not owning the results, not owning the implementation, I think is a fraction of the value and a fraction of the opportunity to learn and get better.”

“You do get a broad cut at companies, but it’s very thin.”

Then the line that made the room go silent:

“It’s like a picture of a banana. You might get a very accurate picture, but it’s only two dimensional. Without the experience of actually doing it, you never get three dimensional.”

“So you might have a lot of pictures on your walls. You can show it off to your friends. You can say, look, I’ve worked in bananas, I’ve worked in peaches, I’ve worked in grapes.”

“But you never really taste it.”

This was 1992. Jobs had been fired from Apple seven years earlier. He was running NeXT. He had scar tissue.

Mindset – Playing to Learn

“I play to learn something…The worst possible thing you can ever do is to stop. It’s to not learn.” ~ Kobe Bryant

An interviewer asks NBA basketball legend and Hall of Famer Kobe Bryant the following question: “Are you someone who loves to win or hates to lose?”

Kobe responds:

“I’m neither. I play to figure things out. I play to learn something. Because if you play with a fear of failure or you play with the will to win that supersedes fear, I think it’s a weakness either way. If you play with fear of failing, you’ll capitulate to that fear. If you play with the sense of ‘I want to win, I want to win,’ then you have the fear of what happens if you don’t. But if you find common ground in the center, you’re unfazed by either. That enables you to stay in the moment and not feel anything other than what’s in front of you.”

The interviewer asks: “How did you become someone who doesn’t seem afraid of failing?”

Kobe responds:

“What does failure mean? It doesn’t exist. It’s a figment of your imagination.”

He explains with an analogy:

“Let’s use happy endings. Everybody wants a happy ending, right? Snow White finds her prince and lives happily ever after. Well, I call BS on that because two months later, they had an argument and he’s sleeping on the couch. The point is: the story continues. So if you fail on Monday, the only way it’s a failure is if you decide to not progress from that. If I fail today, I’m going to learn something from that failure and try again on Tuesday. That’s why failure doesn’t exist.”

The interviewer asks: “If you finished your career without a championship, would you have looked at that as a failure?”

Kobe:

“No. I would look at it as being extremely disappointed, because I had a dream and goals I wanted to accomplish. If I didn’t accomplish those goals, I’d have to ask myself why. Poor leadership? Failure to communicate with my teammates? Lack of preparation? Those would be reasons why I didn’t win. So I’d have to analyze that. And as I evolved post-basketball into business, those same weaknesses would reveal themselves there too. If I don’t learn from that, I’m going to struggle again.”

He concludes:

“I can take those situations and learn from them and have them make me a better person later in life. But if I don’t take that stuff and apply it someplace else, that’s failing. The worst possible thing you can ever do is to stop. It’s to not learn.”

Elite Champions’ Mindset

“To have it when you need it most you must practice it when you need it least.”

Success comes from consistently executing basics with precision, building strong habits and routines, and developing a “next play” mindset that quickly moves past mistakes to what you do next, according to Alan Stein, Jr., a keynote speaker, author, and former elite basketball performance coach.

From Stephen Curry to Simone Biles… here are 12 key mindsets of the world’s top athletes, writes Alan Stein, Jr, in a post on X:

1) They never get bored with the basics. They work towards mastery of the fundamentals… during the Unseen Hours… every single day.

2) They earn their confidence through repetition. They know that repetition is not punishment but rather the most proven form of learning and skill acquisition of all time.

3) They remain humble and grateful. No matter good they are… they can always get better. This allows them to stay open to coaching and willing to accept feedback.

4) They have a clear vision of what they want to achieve. However, despite being goal driven, they focus heavily on habits and the process. They spend minimal time wishing, wanting, and hoping. Instead, they work to develop the daily habits, behaviors, routines, and micro-skills needed to progressively inch toward their goal.

5) They make their preparation their separation. They maximize the Unseen Hours – the time behind the curtain when the lights are off and the arenas are empty. They understand that ‘To have it when you need it most you must practice it when you need it least.’

6) They don’t fear mistakes – they embrace them! They understand that mistakes are part of the growth process. They acknowledge that ‘Success comes from good decisions. Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions and learning from mistakes.’

7) They control the controllables. They put their focus, energy, and attention into their own effort and attitude – and they let everything else go. They don’t allow the environment or circumstances to dictate how they show up.

8) They quickly move to the Next Play. When things don’t go their way, when they make a mistake, or when life is less than preferred… they quickly wipe the slate clean and move on!

9) They make those around them better. They lead by example, hold those they care about accountable, and live by the mantra that a candle loses nothing by lighting another candle.

10) They are relentlessly consistent and consistently relentless. They uphold a high standard of excellence even when they don’t feel like, when they don’t want to, or when it’s not convenient.

11) They have an attitude of extreme ownership. They take full responsibility for everything in their life. They don’t blame, complain, or make excuses.

12) They embrace pressure. Pressure is a privilege. They feel stress and pressure just like everyone else, they simply manage it more effectively be viewing it as a privilege.

Well, there it is. A blueprint for performing at your best. And you don’t need to be Stephen Curry or Simone Biles to live these 12 mindsets – they are readily available and accessible to you right now.

But don’t be tricked by their simplicity. Each of these mindsets is basic in premise, but very challenging to execute consistently. Remember, just because something is basic… it doesn’t mean that it’s easy!

Source:  https://www.fastleader.net/alanstein

What You Focus on Grows

“Every day you have a choice. You can choose to focus on the many reasons to feel angry, sad, and defeated. Or you can choose to focus on the many reasons to feel grateful, blessed, and happy. Choose wisely.”

Your attention and focus decide the tone and direction of your life, since what you focus on grows louder and larger.

Anger and discouragement multiply when you feed them, and so does gratitude. Nothing can change outwardly until your mindset shifts on the inside.

You can let frustration hijack your day and joy, or you can ground and focus yourself in what’s good, pleasing, and excellent.

Both options are available to you every morning.

While one, frustration, can drain you, the other, gratitude, can steady you.

Happiness isn’t pretending things are perfect; it’s choosing not to let what’s wrong blind you to what’s right. That choice, repeated daily, quietly reshapes your entire life.

When you focus on the good in your life and are always gratefu, you are more likely to see opportunities and take action to make your goals a reality.

Don’t Settle for Comfort

“Don’t settle for a life smaller than your dreams. You are capable of more than you imagine, and every step toward your potential honors the purpose you were given.” ~ Nelson Mandela

This quote or idea emphasizes living to your fullest potential rather than accepting mediocrity or comfort over growth.  It requires not settling or turning away from the person you’re meant to become.

Don’t settle for a life that is less than you are capable of living. Your potential is not an accident, and neither is your desire for more. Every day you accept less than what you’re capable of, a part of you quietly knows you’re meant for something greater.

You weren’t created to get by, to stay comfortable, or to repeat the same year over and over. You were created to grow, to stretch, to rise, and to see what becomes possible when you stop shrinking yourself to fit a smaller life.

Start where you are, with what you have, but refuse to stay where you are. Trade excuses for action, fear for courage, and doubt for one small bold step at a time. Your future self is already thanking you for not settling.

 

 

Living Strong and Courageous

“Today, I will walk in strength and courage.”

Living “strong and courageous” is a mindset that starts with what you believe and how you choose to think about yourself and your challenges. Thus, it’s essential to cultivate a positive and grateful mindset that anything is possible.

• Choose courage, don’t wait to feel it. Courage is usually a decision you make before the feelings show up; action often creates the feeling of bravery, not the other way around.
• Adopt a growth mindset. See every struggle as training and a learning opportunity, not as a verdict on your self-worth; ask, “What can I learn from this?” instead of “Why is this happening to me?”
• Focus on who you’re becoming. Measure progress by the character you’re building (grit, patience, faith, integrity), not just by quick outcomes.
• Redefine and reframe the fear. Treat fear as a signal that something matters, not as a stop sign; “I’m scared” becomes “I’m stretching.”
• Stand on something bigger than yourself. Many draw strength from faith, purpose, or service: “I’m doing this with God / for my family / for those who need me,” which makes courage less about ego and more about mission.

Daily practices that build strength and courage

• Morning reset: Say a simple declaration aloud, like, “Today I will walk in strength and courage,” and name one hard thing you will face on purpose.
• Tiny brave acts: Do one small uncomfortable thing every day (a hard conversation, a new task, a boundary); courage is a muscle that grows with reps.
• Honest reflection: At night, ask, “Where did I act courageously today? Where did I hide?” and thank yourself for even the smallest win.
Guard your thoughts: Notice automatic negative thoughts (“I can’t, I always fail”) and replace them with truth-based ones (“This is hard, but I am learning and growing”).
• Lean on support: Strong and courageous doesn’t mean “alone”; share your struggles with at least one trusted person and let them stand with you.

A simple mental framework

When you face something hard, walk through three quick questions:
1. What am I afraid of right now? (Name it clearly.)
2. Who do I want to be in this moment? (Strong, honest, kind, disciplined, etc.)
3. What is one small courageous action I can take in the next 10 minutes?
If you’d like, tell me a situation you’re facing right now, and I can help you shape a specific “strong and courageous” mindset statement and action plan around it.

Mindset, Growth, and Learning in the Present Moment

“I never lose. I either win or learn.” ~ Nelson Mandela

Every experience, even failure, has great value if you take away a lesson from it. In other words, setbacks aren’t truly losses, unless you allow them to stop you — instead, they’re opportunities for reflection, learning, and improvement. This is a great mindset to embrace.

Mindset refers to a set of attitudes, beliefs, and thought patterns that influence your perception of the world and your actions. It acts as a lens, filtering experiences and determining whether you see obstacles as threats or opportunities.

Your mindset shapes how you approach challenges, growth, and success in life. It’s particularly relevant for someone interested in personal growth and development, financial strategies, and wellness practices such as yoga and mindfulness.

Fixed vs. Growth Mindset

People with a fixed mindset view abilities like intelligence or talent as static, avoiding risks to protect their self-image and giving up easily in the face of setbacks.

In contrast, a growth mindset—popularized by psychologist Carol Dweck—believes skills develop through effort, learning from failure, and persistence, leading to greater achievement.

Adopting a growth mindset boosts resilience in areas like investing (embracing market volatility as a learning chance) or fitness (viewing tough yoga sessions as progress). Start by reframing “I failed” to “I learned,” praising effort over innate talent, and seeking challenges daily.

British Entrepreneur Jo Malone emphasizes that failure—bad outcomes—strikes even the deserving. She states during a CNBC International Executive Decision episode that, “Good things happen to bad people; bad things happen to good people. It’s how you get through it; it’s how you navigate through it [that matters].” So, learning lessons and growing from bad outcomes are paramount.

There is no such thing as a wasted effort if you’re honest about your mistakes and strong / courageous enough to learn and grow from your mistakes. Each setback is a lesson, each lesson makes you wiser and stronger, and with that mindset, your journey is never truly interrupted.

“I never lose, I either win or learn. Life isn’t fair—good things happen to bad people and bad things happen to good people. But no matter the outcome, I choose to grow, not quit,” emphasized Richard Branson.

Your Thinking and Beliefs

“As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.” – Proverbs 23:7

The quality of your life will never rise above the quality of your thinking. How you think directly impacts how you live and how you feel. Your thoughts shape your attitude, mindset, values, and beliefs. This collection of thoughts becomes your philosophy of life, ultimately directing your lifestyle, habits, and behaviors. In essence, it defines who you are, how you live, and who you are becoming.

You can choose to think your way to inner peace or anxiety. You can believe in the best outcomes or expect the worst. Essentially, a person is “literally what he thinks.” Both suffering and success begin within: “As he thinks, so he is; as he continues to think, so he remains,” as William James stated.

Your thoughts shape your character and life. Repeated thoughts crystallize into habits, and those habits solidify into circumstances that create your lifestyle. This can be summarized as: thoughts → habits → circumstances. What you continuously think about eventually becomes habitual, and those habits shape the conditions of your life.

The mind is like a garden; if you do not deliberately plant good seeds—noble and disciplined thoughts—and tend to it, weeds such as fear, resentment, and laziness will grow by default, leading to weak character and an unhealthy life. As James Allen argues in “As a Man Thinketh,” “Good thoughts and actions can never produce bad results; bad thoughts and actions can never produce good results. In other words, nothing can come from corn but corn, and nothing from nettles but nettles.”

Ultimately, you are responsible for your thoughts: “Man is made or unmade by himself,” according to James. Ultimately, you must accept that you are the master gardener of your thoughts and the director of your life. Having a clear and meaningful purpose is essential. You should choose a purpose that resonates with you and make it the focal point of your thoughts and efforts.

Source: “As a Man Thinketh” by James Allen

Impossible is an opinion!

“Impossible is not a fact. It’s an opinion!” – Muhammad Ali

Prior to May 6, 1954, most scientific experts believed that a man running a sub-four-mile physiologically impossible, Yet, Roger Bannister stunned the world running 3:59.4 despite widespread belief that it defied human limits.

The mindset “Impossible is an opinion” treats limits as temporary beliefs, not fixed reality. It shifts focus from what cannot be done to what might become possible through belief, action, learning, and persistence.

“Impossible” is usually a description of how something feels, not what is objectively true; it reflects fear, doubt, or lack of current knowledge and courage

The great heavy weight boxing champion Muhammad Ali captured this with: “Impossible is not a fact. It’s an opinion… Impossible is temporary. Impossible is nothing.”

Bannister later reflected that his achievement was a triumph of mindset over perceived limits.

Steph Curry Brand

NBA superstar and future Hall of Fame inductee Steph Curry walked away from Under Armour with the entire Curry Brand—logo, name, trademarks, athlete roster—and a mid 9-figure settlement.

This isn’t a brand deal breakup. It’s a founder story.⸻
1. Most signature athletes get paid.

Curry built an empire. And when he left? He didn’t lose it. He took it all with him.

2. According to reports:  Curry’s exit deal from Under Armour includes:

• Full rights to the Curry Brand name
• His personal logo + trademarks
• Control of his athlete roster
• Freedom to operate Curry Brand independently

He didn’t just leave. He liberated the intellectual property (IP).

3. Sources put the breakup fee in the mid 9-figure range—a massive breakup fee for ending what was once pitched as a “lifetime” deal.

That’s generational wealth and generational leverage.

4. Under Armour still gets to release Curry 13s + related apparel through 2026 as part of the wind-down…but the future of Curry Brand?

That belongs to Steph.

5. This makes him one of the only superstar athletes in modern history to exit a major brand, and keep the rights to his own name, logo, and product line.

This is not normal. Michael Jordan didn’t do it. LeBron James didn’t. Kobe Bryant didn’t.

Curry just redefined the playbook.

6. What does this mean?

He can now:
→ Build Curry Brand direct-to-consumer
→ Partner with Nike, Adidas, Puma, etc.
→ Bring in new designers
→ Retain full equity + creative control

7. The closest comparison?

Imagine if Jordan left Nike and took the Jumpman with him.

Curry just pulled that off in real life.

8. And with the right partner?

Curry Brand could become the first truly athlete-owned global performance brand—without being trapped under a corporate giant.

He’s no longer just a face on a billboard. He’s the owner behind the brand.

9. No athlete has made a move this bold since Jordan.

But unlike Jordan in ‘84, Steph now controls:

→ The name
→ The marks
→ The team
→ The roadmap

All before retirement.

10. This isn’t about leaving a shoe deal. It’s about writing a new model for athletes:

Start with sponsorship.
Level up to ownership.
Exit with everything.

Steph didn’t just bounce from Under Armour. He walked out with the blueprints.

Curry Brand is now a free agent.
Distribution deals. Licensing power. Direct-to-consumer dominance. All in play.

And Steph’s calling the shots. This is what owning your narrative looks like