A man asked his gardener, “How do you make your plants grow so beautifully?”
The gardener replied, “I don’t force them to grow. I simply remove what stops them.”
Michelangelo said something similar…
When asked how he carved the statue of David, he said: “It’s simple. I just remove everything that is NOT David.”
This is called: Addition through Subtraction.
Often, on your quest to unlock inner-greatness, you begin by looking in all the wrong places.
You look to introduce fancy new habits like cold plunges, red light therapy, or gratitude journals because you believe the reason you are not where you want to be is because there’s something you’re not doing.
And ya know what? Sometimes you do need to introduce new habits.
But…
The thing really holding you back are the things you need to STOP doing.
Imagine you’re a car.
Great habits are the accelerator.
Bad habits are the emergency break.
You could press harder on the accelerator, and sure, you’ll go quicker…
But do you smell that?
Yeah, that’s the smell of burn out.
So, before pressing the pedal all the way to the metal, let’s first make sure we’ve disengaged the emergency break.
That is, let’s eliminate those habits holding you back before worrying about the ones that’ll propel you forward.
Here are 3 of the most common bad habits that can hold you back:
1. The Scarcity Mindset
Many are haunted by the specter of scarcity, fearing there’s never enough of whatever we seek (money, love, attention, security, joy, time, etc…)
The paradox here is that when you worry about not having enough, you close ourselves off to the opportunities around you.
And therefore your reality mirrors your beliefs.
Here’s the thing…
Any belief held strongly enough will inevitably become true.
So be careful what you choose to believe…
Because in a very real way, it’ll become your reality.
2. Prioritizing Urgency Over Impact
We live in a noisy world filled with “loud” tasks vying for our attention.
And unfortunately, the loudest tasks tend to be the most urgent (and rarely the most important).
When you’re trapped in the cycle of urgency, it’s easy to confuse being busy with being productive.
But not everything that demands your attention deserves your attention.
3. Collecting Dots Instead of Connecting Dots
This third habit is subtle (and often mistaken for a virtue)…
It’s the excessive collection of dots, or in layman’s terms, the relentless pursuit of knowledge.
The problem?
It’s very hard to get paid for collecting dots.
Surprisingly easy, however, to get paid for connecting them.
**Dots = Information
Remember, the acquisition of knowlege is valuable, but it’s the APPLICATIONS of knowledge that creates real impact in the world.
Truly, life gets good when you stop collecitng more dots…
…and just start connecting the ones you already have.
Or, put another way:
Consume Less. Create More.
Source: Anthony Vicino, on “X”, https://x.com/anthonyvicino/status/1999856841254130125
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